It’s not uncommon for that relationship to be missing or at the bottom, especially for women. Having been programmed since birth to be a caretaker, do you ensure everyone else is taken care of while leaving you at the gate with little or no time/attention for your needs, let alone desires?

Does choosing you first feel like selfishness at best and heresy at worst while striking fear throughout your body? What if selfish means not letting others influence you? What if your relationship with you is vital not only to your emotional, physical and spiritual health but to the health of all your relationships? Did/do your parents constantly judge, criticize, ignore and/or punish you and your body? Do you constantly treat yourself and your body the same way? Is this also how your spouse/significant other treats you? Are you frequently depressed, exhausted, fearful, confused, overweight, ill and/or out of balance physically and emotionally? Quite a trickle down effect!

What’s Happening Here?

1. Your parents, as your primary role models for relationships, greatly influence your beliefs by how they treat you and each other thus informing how you treat yourself and relate to others.

2. The energy you carry reflects your image of yourself, i.e., victim, unworthy, needy, co-dependent, controlling, confident and secure within yourself. Your energy is a magnet that brings others to you, so if you need to be needed, needy people will be drawn to you, if you’re confident, self-assured people will find you.

Many years ago as I imagined all the men in my life, including my father, lined up next to each other, I realized that while they looked different on the outside, every one was emotionally unavailable on the inside just like my father. When sharing this revelation with my therapist, she revealed we all have antennas that search for and bring us what/who we are looking for. The only way to create a different result is to change the antennas’ programming.

Re-programming Your Antennas

It’s YOUR movie! Being the director and star of your life means choosing you first is your highest priority since this is the only relationship you are in charge of creating. So where do you start?

1. Unconditional love is the major component of a vibrant and fulfilling relationship. Love has no room for judgment, criticism, punishment, neglect or abuse. Frequent use of those behaviors can increase weight and/or cause depression, pain, disorders and illness. Notice how often you use those behaviors toward you and your body, make a concerted effort to stop, then choose more nurturing, loving words and actions to support you rather than tear you down.

2. You always have a choice! What a concept! Frequent use of “should, have to, must, supposed to, need to” reflect the belief of having no choice. Begin noticing when you are using these words and ask, “Who says?” Those words, from parents, teachers, clergy, etc., control and constrict you rather than free and expand you. Do you even recognize you have needs and desires? Ask, “What would my world look like if I created it to work for me?” Write your answers with no limitations. Choose what you’d like to generate in any given situation. This will clarify what will work or not for you. Act on your choice. You can change your choice at any time as nothing is cast in concrete.

3. Give from the overflow, not from depletion. Nurture yourself first by filling your life with quite time and rest, plus activities and people who bring you joy and inspiration. As you begin to exude joy, playfulness and optimism, those around you will be filled and energized from your energy. By not care-taking/fixing, you are giving those around you permission to choose for them! A true win/win!

As you begin choosing for you amazing gifts, people and experiences will abound as more freedom, confidence and creativity unfold within you.

May joy, peace and ease fill your journey!

“The Inner Weigh” DVD and the current “Fall In Love With Your Body” Tele-class…….A dynamic duo to start your New Year and transform your life!!

Have you resolved that this will finally be the year you lose those extra pounds?

If you are among the millions who are overweight or obese, it’s a great target to have as you move toward a happier, healthier, and longer life.

Is dieting your solution– despite having tried it time and time again while continually being told it’s the best way to lose weight?

What’s the TRUTH? Studies show that people who go on diets are the most likely to gain weight. That’s right, diets make you fat!

Despite a $70 billion diet industry, two-thirds of Americans are either overweight or obese, and the numbers keep growing.  In America alone, over 80 million people will diet this year, and, 95% of them will gain back all of the weight they lose . . . or more!

Have you started to realize diets don’t work yet don’t know what else is possible?

Are you are sick of being overweight, dieting, and hating yourself?

There is another way!  A new documentary film called, THE INNER WEIGH™, shows you how you can LOVE your body, EAT what you want, and NEVER diet again!

Click here to watch the powerful trailer and learn more about this amazing film: The Inner Weigh

THE INNER WEIGH™ is based upon the universal, spiritual principle of “the Law of Attraction” and the power of the subconscious mind.   You’ll discover incredible insights on weight loss from twenty of the top experts in the fields of nutrition, weight loss, spirituality, and the mind.  Many of these teachers have overcome their own personal issues with food, weight, body image and self-esteem by using THE INNER WEIGH™. All of them are here to help you.

This film is getting rave reviews from people just like you who have vowed to start loving their bodies and living their best life:

“THE INNER WEIGH™tape made me cry! It really
makes so much sense. I can now see how I have been
sabotaging myself.  I really need to love myself better
than that.  Thank you for showing me how. I am going
to get started right away.”
Velda J., Fort Worth, TX

“Thanks for the reminder that everything I need to be
the best me I can be is, and always has been, inside me
and that I can love myself with the same unconditional
love I have for my children!”
Tamara C., San Antonio, TX

CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE TRAILER AND

LEARN MORE: The Inner Weigh

Experts in the film include renowned teachers like Bob Proctor, Victoria Moran, Dr. Gay Hendricks, Mary Morrisey, Peggy McColl, Bonnie MeChelle, Dr. Andrea
Pennington, Bronwyn Marmo, Dr. Matthew B. James, Andréa Albright, Debbie Johnson, Janice Taylor, Karly Randolph Pitman, Renée Stephens, Elyse Resch,
Alfonso De Rose, Suyin Nichols, and more!

Here is what Michael Beckwith, star of The Secret, had
to say about THE INNER WEIGH™ after he watched it:

“This film offers a wise alternative to faddish products
and instead supports the viewer in transforming emotional
hungers into spiritual nourishment that creates peace of
mind, heart, and spirit.”
Michael Bernard Beckwith,author of Spiritual
Liberation: Fulfilling Your Soul’s Potential

So, I invite you to take a moment and check it out now.
This is the kind of film that can change your life forever

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“THE INNER WEIGH™DVD has provided me with life
changing information and therefore, I am motivated to
let you know that my life has been transformed in a
short space of time.  I know that I still have a long
journey ahead of me, but, it is no accident that I came
across this information when I was searching for a
program or method that would assist me to become
balanced with my weight.”
Grace T, Festus, MO

“I watched the film last night and was transformed. God
used your production to reveal to me that my weight
issues are related to my Inner Child.  I’m already doing
the positive visualization and feel the results.  I’m forever
grateful!”
Zuly P., Bakersfield, CA

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May joy, peace, health and well being fill your journey,

Judith Joyce

P.S.  If you deny your soul’s passion, your dreams,
your deep emotions, you will end up stuffing it all
down with food.  No diet can help you change that.

Watching THE INNER WEIGH™ is your opportunity to
create positive change for yourself for the rest of your life,
starting now.

CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE TRAILER AND
LEARN MORE: The Inner Weigh